Bad role models for DD - what to do?
I'm planning on visiting my family in May - mother and grandmother. Everyone is excited about the visit b/c DD is the first grandchild/great-grandchild in the family.
I'm a bit worried about the visit b/c my mother curses a LOT and just has a general negative attitude on life. I was relieved when we moved away from them, so DD would not always be around that cursing and negativity.
1) How can I try to shield DD from this or how can I tell my mother, in a nice way, don't act like this in front of my daughter? (My mother tends to say things like, "You don't understand, you don't have a kid blah blah blah". Now I feel like she can't say that anymore, b/c I do have a kid!
2) How do I politely tell Mom and Grandma not for advice unless I ask for it?
Many thanks.
First time Mom
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Thanks for your time!