I haven't run across this issue in particular, but I do have a lot of people in my life who seem to think I've "thrown my brain away" in order to be a SAHM. I was really advanced in school and skipped two grades, and finished college at 20. Aced the ACT and SAT, National Merit Scholar, fluent in 3 languages, blah, blah, blah. I think everyone expected me to be an astronaut or something.
When I married at 20 and had DS at 21, a lot of people in my small hometown were shocked (in fact, several speculated that I got married because I was pregnant, but if you do the math you'll know that's not true ). I still get a lot of comments to the effect of "Imagine where you could be today" or "Think of the money you could be making." It's annoying, because I have thought about all that...and it doesn't matter to me. Didn't matter to me then, and doesn't now. DH makes a comfortable salary, we have a comfortable life, and I'm living my dream of being a wife and mom.
Why people can't just be supportive of everyone's personal choices, I'll never know...
Stacy
Wife to K
Mommy to A (5) and twins E & S (1.5)
The biggest mistake I made is the one that most of us make...I did not live in the moment enough. I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing: dinner, bath, book bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less. - Anna Quindlen