Quote Originally Posted by hellokitty View Post
Worst yet, when we moved back, both of my siblings moved out of state soon after and DH's brother was already out of state, so now we are the only adult children that have been ditched with the crazy parents. So we deal with about 75% of their craziness compared to what our siblings deal with, due mainly to the fact that we live closer, so I guess they feel it is ok to lay everything on us.
OMG. This is our situation too. The siblings have moved far away and we'd be the only ones nearby to deal with the issues. Luckily, DH's job would put us about an hour away from all of them. But that's still close enough. They expect a LOT from us and it's exhausting. We would have to go in expecting them to resist our new boundaries but I cannot imagine going back to the old way.

Wow. A lot to consider.