DD is 21 months and nurses 3-4 times a day. I'm really not sure she's getting much of anything, though b/c I don't feel a letdown and most of the time don't even hear her swallowing. It's been awhile since I've seen milk on her mouth when she's done too. She may be like DS, who kept nursing through my preg, eventhough I didn't have any milk at a certain point. Anyway, I think I'd like to wean her around 2 yo, so soon, but I realize based on past experience that it may take awhile--so I can't really count on being done with nursing for a good 6-9 months probably. Who knows, it may happen sooner, but it's hard to tell how each kid will react.
I'd also like to get on some hormonal BC. I just cannot trust myself to take the minipill at the same time everyday. If I were to take a combo BCP, would anything bad happen other than my supposed milk supply decreasing (not necessarily a bad thing since I'm thinking about weaning and DD gets most of her calories from solids now). Is there any neg effect on her, like hormones getting through the milk supply, that I should worry about? Kind of going back and forth btwn a combo BCP and Minera--I'm assuming both would have similar issues around bfing.
As a nice side effect, I'd also like to have a lighter or nonexistent period. These super heavy periods are killer!