I think as long as you keep in mind that your plan may go out the window, and THAT'S OK, plan what seems right to you personally without getting too invested in it. I say this because I had a plan, and then my water broke 3 weeks early, I spiked a fever due to a staph infection at the hospital, had an emergency c-section, had a healthy baby but never expected jaundice, eye infections, etc. in his first week of life, had nursing troubles...and STILL we recovered just fine, bonded just fine, etc. He's a healthy, happy, bright 7 year old boy now and really was a very healthy baby, too.
I'm not trying to be scary--just to warn other "planner" moms to be that sometimes things happen, and there's absolutely nothing you can do about it. Stressing about the plan once it's obvious it's unraveling makes it all worse. I hope everything you want to happen happens, but in the end, as long as you end up with a healthy baby and a good recovery, that's what matters the most. I'm sure it would be great to have a plan go according to plan, but I'm happy to report that when it doesn't, you're so overwhelmed by the joy of having a BABY that the plan is just not that important anymore.
Boy (4/03) -- Girl (12/05) -- Boy (11/10)