I've had 2 ectopics as well, and you'd kinda know with the shoulder pain and have other symptoms like fainting, light-headedness, dizziness, a TON of abdominal pain, spotting (sometimes), etc. It was so hard to miss that I had DH call 911 before I passed out on the floor. The good news (and it doesn't sound like it, but I've survived two) is that when early, even if they rupture, the tubes aren't blood rich (vascular) organs, so bleeding to death is rare in America as long as you seek treatment ASAP. Any amt of blood free-floating in the body is highly painful/agitating, so you WILL know.
I will say that if they saw a sac in the uterus with any contents inside (yolk sac, etc), then I doubt it's ectopic. I had a pseudo sac (fake/empty sac--hormonally caused) during one of my ectopic pgs, but there was nothing inside. Praying it all turns out a-okay. ((hugs))
Muffin, 2010
Bubba, 2013
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