I have a good friend with a similar bed with a similar range of ages (2-12 yrs) and they hate it (it's going on CL ASAP). It really limits the way you can use the space in a room. It has to be away from the wall enough to use the desk and access the drawers. The bed sticking out is a pain for floor space and generally it doesn't get used for the way it was designed at all.
In your case, I might consider just a simple loft from IKEA for T and put the crib/todlder bed under for now. Once F is ready for a bigger bed, revisit what kind of bunks you really need/want. As much as I want to invest in nice furniture and buy something that will last until college, I have resigned myself to IKEA and CL until all three are older.
ETA: Whatever you get, I would insist on a ladder that can be easily removed. I know they spend most of the time with the ladder removed to prevent the toddlers from climbing up the bunkbeds and just put it back as needed for the older ones.
Last edited by o_mom; 09-02-2010 at 10:07 AM.
Mama to three boys ('03, '05, '07)