Well, we put it off and put it off (DH's friend is even an Urologist) and then got pregnant DC #3.. so no more putting off. He had the V done before I gave birth to lessen the margin of error
Well, we put it off and put it off (DH's friend is even an Urologist) and then got pregnant DC #3.. so no more putting off. He had the V done before I gave birth to lessen the margin of error
JMS
Mommy to DD "HH" 2004
and DS1 "MH" 2005
& DS2 "JJH" - My very Irish baby!
DH is plenty willing but I will be making him wait until after DD1 is born and everything is good. I am interested in Essure--the new permanent b/c method for women. It sounds quick and painless. I'm surprised no one has mentioned it here.
K
DH is getting his done on Tuesday! Wahoo!
~ deb
DS1 Dec 2003
DS2 Sept 2009
Absolutely...about 2 weeks after DD2 was born. We are taking NO chances!!!
DH has offered to get one and I'm all for it. Not sure what he's waiting for...I guess our life is a little crazy right now.
OP, your *parents* suggested your DH get a V? I don't think I could talk to mine about birth control!
And SnuggleBuggles, I'm also reeling from your DH nixing the V for those reasons. Although it's happened to others before, I can't quite wrap my head around that conversation!
for Sandy Hook
DH is totally willing to get one, but I have asked him to wait. Heaven forbid something happens to one of our children, we both agree that we want DC to have a sibling. In that situation, we would try for one more. It's a weird consideration, I know, but I feel strongly that they each have a sibling to rely on/grow old with. We both are close to our own siblings and really wish the same for the two of them.
Last edited by baymom; 09-11-2010 at 01:10 AM.
Not yet. He said he would but I just had a Mirena put in on Friday. That'll give us 5 years to be sure we are absolutely done.
Mom to two amazing DDs ('07 & '09) and a fur baby.
Gluten free since Nov '11 after non-celiac gluten sensitive diagnosis. Have had great improvement or total elimination of: migraines, bloating/distention, heartburn, cystic acne, canker sores, bleeding gums, eczema on elbows, dry skin and scalp, muscle cramps, PMS, hair loss, heart palpitations, fatigue. I'm amazed.
My DH is a SAHD. He literally sprinted to the urologist office after DD was born!
My sweet boy 8/06
My beautiful girl 10/09