As a person who received part of my maternity clothes from someone who was done having kids, I think the email is a nice gesture. I'd say that you are planning to donate your clothes but wanted to offer them to her first. If my friend sent that email between my girls, I would have happily accepted, and if she sent it now I'd say thanks but no thanks. But I'd consider it a generous offer either way.
I wouldn't hold on to them.
Last edited by MoJo; 09-25-2010 at 06:09 AM.
Jo
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