now don't get me wrong, i love to travel, and it's always great to see family that we don't get to see very often. BUT, i have to admit, after this last trip, i'm tempted to say i never want to travel for Thanksgiving again (especially by car). EVER. Ok, maybe until kids are old enough to be out of diapers and entertain themselves.
I guess it's a combination of things...the insane crowds (everywhere!), the horrible traffic (even at night!!), the MAJOR disruption in routine (for both me and DS), the sheer exhaustion that comes as a result of being 5 mos pregnant and spending 20+ hours in the car (over just 4 days) with an infant who clearly would rather be anywhere else... oh and the crazy number of family get-togethers, DS getting overwhelmed with all the people, the averaging 4 hrs of sleep per night, having to eat crappy fast food all the time because that's all that's available on the road, dealing with horrible headaches as a result of lack of sleep, exhaustion etc. THe other night when we got back I was just SO happy to be home and I could tell DS was too.
Seriously, i am so jealous of those who get to wake up at 5am or whatever, get to cook turkey, stuffing and whatnot , have family over, then they leave and you get to spend the rest of the weekend relaxing and doing whatever IN YOUR OWN HOUSE. I always hear people say how they are so sad their "four day weekend is over". well this past few days certainly didn't feel like a "weekend" to me..spending 8 hours on the road entertaining an infant while stuck in traffic is not a "vacation" by any stretch.
oh, and as an added bonus, just when i *finally* started to feel back in the swing of things yesterday, i wake up this morning feeling like crap, like i had just come down with the worst cold ever. i had been worried about getting sick since one of our nephews who we visited had runny nose, and I *always* get sick after visiting DH's family over the holidays. and DH is leaving tomorrow morning for 11 days, so i get to spend the next week and half on my own, being sick without meds and possibly caring for a sick infant as well. BOO.
Sorry if i sound like a scrooge, but seriously, i ain't feeling the holiday joy at the moment. I am just so exhausted from all the traveling and insanity and then having to put on a happy face for everyone. I am just thankful I get a free pass for not having to travel for Christmas this year.