How many times a day do you kiss your spouse?
How many times is it a peck or quick kiss versus a "really good"
movie kiss??
How many times a day do you kiss your spouse?
How many times is it a peck or quick kiss versus a "really good"
movie kiss??
Corie
"A smile is a curve that can set a lot of things straight."
-fortune cookie
We are pretty kissy and affectionate. Usually I get a really good one when we wake up in the morning before we get the baby up. Then when we leave for work it is about 50/50 peck/real kiss, it depends on whether or not the neighbors are outside. Then there is usually a peck when we get home from work. Then a really good one after we get the baby down to sleep and another really good one before bed. Sometimes there are more depending on what we do at night (wink wink) but that is the bare minimum.
I one time saw a sex therapist on tv and he said that the worst thing married people can do for their love life is give pecks. He said that every kiss doesn't need to be a french kiss, but it should be more than a peck. He said that it keeps everyone thinking more about intimacy in the marriage and improves your love life. Now I don't agree that a peck is the "worst thing" you could do, but we do try to keep the pecks to a minimum and commit to good kisses whenever there isn't an audience.
I don't see him in the morning during the week. He used to kiss me goodbye, but it would wake me up, so he doesn't anymore. We kiss when he gets home. Lots of pecks throughout the evening. Usually at least one "real" kiss when the kids go to sleep. We're kind of a kissy household, the girls like to give us kisses too.
Mommy to my wonderful, HEALTHY twin girls
6/08 - Preemies no more!
A few pecks per day. Good kisses varies a lot. Some days none, others lots. I'm not touchy feely with other people, but I really like hugs and kisses with dh.
Catherine
Not often enough. We work different shifts during the week and have different days off. I keep trying but he's clueless when he's tired and vice versa. Does not bode welltowards building affection between each other unfortunately.
All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.
~Abraham Lincoln~
A really good kiss when DH gets home from work, after he has greeted the kids and the dog. I think it is good for the kids to see their parents be affectionate with each other.
Several quick ones daily & about 80% of the time a really good one daily.