Originally Posted by
elektra
That just sucks.
If you don't want to do CIO, or if moving her out of your room is not an option, I would consider bringing your DD into bed with you. Maybe some co-sleeping parents can chime in about the logistics but from what I understand, the kids do wake up to nurse throughout the night, but both of you are still semi asleep and are able to get back to sleep much easier. I didn't start cosleeping until DD was out of the crib and it was the only way to get her to sleep, so I can't speak to the specifics of co-sleeping with a smaller baby.
If it were me, I would first try making sure my baby was napping better, and then basically do CIO. It's what I did with DD at around 15 months. She was actually a great sleeper from about 3 months to just over a year, but then we got way off track somehow. I first tried "The No-Cry Sleep Solution" and I found it to actually be the "No Sleep Cry Solution". My DD actually cried more doing that method because it was dragged out over 2 months. With CIO, she was good to go in 3 days. I read the Weissbluth book and basically followed that method- he is all about early bedtimes, protecting the nap and then doing CIO at times to get back on track.