Also, for many women their partner's skills have nothing to do with enjoying or needing a vibrator to climax. Some women will not reach orgasm with penetration. I am lucky that I now can, but having a vibrator does not mean that someone's partner is not skilled enough. I got one years ago as part of my survivor's therapy (I could not engage in sexual activities without flashing back to childhood assault) and my husband and I used it to effectively get me to a point where sex was a pleasurable and feasible matter, not something I wanted but could not have.
Katie, mama to a pair of boys.