I've been looking at dresses for about a month now and the more I look, the more worried I get. I am a very petite woman (4'11" and 100 lbs) and I'm terrified that any gown that I get I'm going to look like I'm swimming in a sea of fabric! Beyond that, I'm afraid I'll have to pay a lot of money for alterations to any gown that I get. Any brides out there have any advice?