You don't want to see my house. DS2 just turned 1 and is still waking every 1.5 - 2 hours every night. On the rare occasion that I can get both DC to nap together I crawl into bed to try to catch a quick cat nap. DS1 is attached to my hip and will not let me go all day so I can't get anything done during the day. At the end of the day when I get DS1 in bed and DS2 down for the first 1.5 hours - I clean the kitchen, brush my teeth and get ready for bed and then just zone out in front of the TV for 30 mins before DS2's first wake up. At this point I've just accepted it's the way we live now and it's not going to change any time soon. (DH doesn't get home until after DC are in bed every night so I'm on my own every day.)