This getting-up-with-the-baby stuff (DS is 4 months old), combined with DD (2) waking up once or twice overnight, waking up when DH comes to bed, waking up when I'm hungry overnight, when the cat jumps up on the bed, is kicking my butt... I feel like I'm being woken up every hour for something!
I'm not sure there's an end in sight, so I'm wondering what I can do to function better during the day (I'm a SAHM) on so little sleep. I'm hesitant to have anything with caffeine since I'm nursing and I've heard it's just not good for your body, in general. I just really need to be able to get up early with DD (she's getting up in the 5-6:00 range lately) and not be horribly angry with the world.
I used to try getting both kids down for a nap at the same time in the afternoon, but usually when I lay down and fall asleep, DS will wake up a while later to be nursed. Then there are days like today where I won't lay down because I'm worried one of them will wake up (DD has been waking up 45 min-1 hour into her nap, freaking out from bad dreams or something), and I get sooooo cranky being woken up and more tired than I would've been w/o a nap.... then both of them will take a longer nap.
I've heard that exercising can give you more energy, but honestly, by the time I put them to bed, it's 8 p.m. and I'm so tired I just want to veg out for an hour or so before I go to bed. I guess I have to work out each day to get over that 'hump' so eventually I'll get more energy?
I'm only 31 and can't believe how tired I am all day, every day... I'm so much more tired this time around; is it just because I could nap when DD did when she was a baby, and now I can't?
Any advice you could give would be greatly appreciated! As DH said today, this is clearly not working.... I'm just a walking zombie each day, and he deserves better than having me rant & rave about having no sleep, only to go to bed an hour after the kids do, giving up any alone time we might have. And the weekend afternoons I've tried taking a nap when DD does, DS will wake me up 45 minutes later to nurse because DH can't get him to take a bottle. So I either hear the baby crying, or DH will wake me up to feed him.
Thanks!