Oohhh, Now THERE's and idea! Never thought of that! Something like, "Here DH is your meat budget for you. Buy whatever you want for yourself. DD & I will eat less/ no meat, but what we do will be organic or near-so." I never thought of letting him feed himself differently from me and DD. But I could see it going like this: ww pasta w/ sauce. DD & I have mozzirella (sp?) and he has meat. He will probably go for this because it gives him control, and our fights are always about how I control the purse strings...
Also, I'm with you, we *already* buy the hormone free milk from TJs, but not the organic. This was a cutback, but I am not going to drink crap milk.