Kinder is right around the corner and I am faced with the age old question: separate or keep together
I originally thought - of course I will keep them together. School will be a big enough change and that would be throwing too much at them (they have rarely been apart, but do not seem codependent - to me, teachers, or others).
But then - at their new preschool, no one can tell them apart (still - after 4 months) including the teachers. If they were in their own classes, friends wouldn't mix them up (At least in the classroom).
But then - twin B is depressed quite a bit and it might be too hard for her to be alone.
But is it fair to twin A to basically have her be there for her sister...
In my state, parents have the right to choose, but some principals and teachers make life difficult. Right now we are looking at two public schools. School A has 4 kinder classes of 22 ish kids, School B only has 2 kinder classes. Principal A seemed like she would fight me on keeping them together (despite the law), Principal B did not. The school choice may not be up to me in the end - budget issues. I am not afraid to fight the principal if I feel they need to be together.
Any thoughts?
TIA