What kind of kindergarten will she be attending, public or private? Is she currently in public or private preschool?
If she will be going to public kindy, has she been evaluated for an IEP or a 504 Plan? If her medical conditions affect her learning (either her academic performance or her ability to fully participate in the classroom), then she should qualify for an IEP so she can receive appropriate services and accommodations. IF she needs an aide, it would have to written into the IEP. Aides are an expensive support service and many districts are cutting back on the aides they provide as part of IEPs. So in a public school setting, it is unlikely that school will provide an aide unless everyone on IEP team was certain that she needs one.
So it's not just the opinion of one preschool teacher that determines whether or not your DD should have an aide. A whole team of evaluators would need to agree that she needs an aide.
If she will be doing private kindy, the rules maybe different.
Gena
DS, age 11 and always amazing
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