Hang in there - it's HARD during these first few months.
FWIW, watch her for reflux. That screaming while lying down is a symptom....
ETA: There is no way you're going to be able to keep both kids content at all times. Don't set this goal for yourself - it's a recipe for failure, and who needs that?!?! You're doing a great job, you're a good mother. This is just one of the hardest times. And talk to doulas around, maybe they do night work and you can convince your DH in that they are insured/bonded (usually) if they come from an agency.
Last edited by ThreeofUs; 04-28-2011 at 05:02 PM.
-Ivy
Parenting two active, wonderful boys
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