Please please please stop calling me daily to cry about how much you hate your job. You need to work this out with your DH (he will not allow her to leave her job b/c they need the $$). BFF is miserable and calls me wanting to cry and whine for HOURS nightly. FWIW, this happened with the last 2 jobs as well (I see the pattern, but I don't know how to tell her that it may not be the position or the people, but it may be her and how she handles herself professionally as part of it--she would not believe me).
I honestly do not mind this most of the time, but it's getting so bad for her right now that she calls several times a day and I either cannot get work done or my DH is angry b/c she calls when we are putting the kids to bed (BFF's kids go to bed MUCH later).
and yes, I have stopped answering the phone when I see it's her. I'm on dump overload right now, and have a host of my own issues to tend to.