I would look into a pelvic floor therapist. There was a long thread on this in the past. Maybe do a search?
I wonder if you have a slight prolapse? (part of your bladder is pooched out into your vaginal canal--sorry for the TMI!). That can cause your symptoms.
And there are therapists that help you strengthen all those muscles down there to hold everything back in and support your bladder the way it should be.
Much better idea than acupuncture if you ask me!
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