over the past couple weeks i have started feeling extremely sad and overwhelmed most of the time. i have a general feeling of being stuck in a hopeless situation that is never going to get better. i have started having major sleep problems and feeling anxious about things that didn't bother me as much before. i've spent half the day thinking about about how i made all the wrong choices in life (moving away and putting career on hold, having 2 kids so close together, etc ). but i swear, i used to really enjoy being a SAHM and having 2 LOs so close in age but now i'm starting to really hate it and i feel like i can't enjoy being with my kids at all, which just makes me so incredibly sad.
anyway, at first i attributed this to just being stressed and getting adjusted to life with 2 kids, but i'm starting to think it's more than that. taking care of 2 little ones is stressful, but really to be perfectly honest i don't think it's THAT difficult, at least in my case...my kids are both healthy and relatively easy babies. my DD is sleeping decently at night and instead of feeling more rested i am starting to feeling worse. i do have a decent amount of help (i have a sitter come 2 mornings a week, cleaning service comes in 2x a month, cooking service 2x a month) and even with that i still feel extremely overwhelmed and unable to deal with life in general. realizing this makes me feel even worse, because i feel so uncapable.
i just feel so bad because it's starting to affect my DH as well. i know i've been complaining more and more about things and we have been fighting a lot more lately. a few days ago he literally started tearing up and saying how heartbroken he is to see me so sad like this and i know it's really stressing him out feeling like he can't do anything to help me. anyway i feel so bad but not sure what else i can do. i can't seem to get out of this funk and this feeling of sadness, hopelessness and isolation. don't know if its PPD, since it's been 3.5 months already since DD was born and this is probably the worst i've felt since then (this is probably the worst i've felt in years). after having DS i don't remember feeling this bad, at least for this long.
anyway, any suggestions would be helpful. depression and anxiety run in my family so i just want to nip this in the bud before it gets worse. if it could be PPD, not sure who to talk to about this, my OB or general care doctor. i wouldn't be opposed to taking meds but i would be somewhat concerned since i really want to continue nursing my DD.