After being induced with DS1, I really want to experience going into labor naturally with DS2. I planned on an epidural, but I wanted to avoid pitocin at all costs. One thing I read here and other places over and over that not going to the hospital too early will help avoid intervention. For ten days before my due date I had false labor contractions once or twice a day. I would dutifully time them, and just when it would appear that a pattern was emerging or they were coming closer, they would stop.
So by the time the afternoon of my due date rolled around I had learned to tune out the achey cramps I was having. I was tired of false alarms. That night I went to bed about midnight, and then woke up at 1:30 a.m. with what felt like a strong gas pain in my lower abdomen. Since the pain wasn't radiating from the back like I assumed labor pains should I got up, drank a glass of water, then went back to sleep. I woke up ten minutes later with more pain. So I started walking around the house and timing. By 2 a.m. I had had 4 more pains, each 5 minutes apart, so I woke up DH. Because the pains were coming so fast I still wasn't convinced they weren't contractions. I texted my doctor who said to time for another hour than head to the hospital. But just then the pains started coming back-to-back. I texted him again and he said just to head to hospital whenever. So we called DH's parents to come over to watch DS1 and packed up the car. We arrived at L/D at 2:45. While we were registering out by the nurses station I started to vomit. After that they had me change and tried to get me into bed to start a fetal monitor and to check me. I literally could not lie down. They spent the next few minutes chasing me all over the hospital bed, trying to get me to stay on my back so they could monitor me.
They checked me and told me I was 8 cm. That was a lie. They told me later I was really 10 cm and that they didn't want to "panic" me. I think telling me I was 8 cm was worse though. B/C I thought I was going to endure that pain for another 2 cm change with no chance of epidural. DH asked if I was going to get one, and they go "oh an IV is on it's way." I knew there was no chance though. All this time I had an urge to push, but they kept telling me it wasn't time yet and to blow. Then at 3 a.m. my water breaks. I gave in to the urge to push and just did a tiny little push. The head started to come out and the nurses changed their tune and started yelling at me to push. And DS2 was born at 3:04 a.m. on his due date, 19 minutes after we arrived at the hospital. The doctor was still down the street.
DH and I were in shock for two days straight. We did not ever dream DS2's birth would happen like that. So quickly, with no epidural, with no doctor, and such chaos. So moral of the story, don't be afraid of going in to L/D too early. We were so freaked out afterward at how close DS2 was to being born in the car or somewhere else. I was in pain, but we had no idea things would progress that fast.
Little guys was 6 pounds 1 oz and perfectly healthy!