I really like that "Vine Wrapped Tee" with the built-in belt that happymom linked to upthread, although $78 is far out of my fashion budget.
I thought (from WNTW) that you wanted to find something to accentuate your waist or give you the illusion of having a waist. But the article Arivecchi linked to said to avoid belts if you're trying to hide a tummy.
"I" think I look better in something that shows I still have a waist. . . but I get more compliments when I wear long boxy blazers.
Jo
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DD#2 "Ha" 6/10
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