View Poll Results: Monogamy: Boring or Beautiful?

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  • My spouse & I only consider & have sexual relations with one another.

    106 75.18%
  • My spouse & I are sexually faithful, but we joke about sharing with others.

    22 15.60%
  • My spouse & I are sexually faithful, but we talk about it when we get steamy - just fun, dirty talk.

    12 8.51%
  • We are sexually faithful SO FAR, but have seriously discussed including a 3rd person.

    3 2.13%
  • We have discussed swapping partners with another couple.

    0 0%
  • I would like to explore but my spouse won't.

    2 1.42%
  • My spouse would like to explore, but I won't.

    2 1.42%
  • We have shared: M, M, F

    1 0.71%
  • We have shared: M, F, F

    0 0%
  • We have shared 4-way with another couple or swapped.

    1 0.71%
  • We have participated in mutiple partner, orgy style, sex.

    0 0%
  • We share, but oral only.

    0 0%
  • We shared and one or both of us regretted it.

    0 0%
  • We shared and we would do it again.

    0 0%
  • Other: This thread disgusts me / Never thought about it / Brussels Sprouts

    6 4.26%
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  1. #21
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    Quote Originally Posted by fortato View Post
    So, My husband and I talked about it last night, and I mentioned the intimidation factor and the excess holes and he said that wasn't as much of a concern as having his balls accidentally bump into another guys'....

    I hadn't thought about that.
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    lhafer is offline Diamond level (5000+ posts)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jo View Post
    Awesomeness...

  3. #23
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    Monogamy is absolutely mandatory for both of us. It goes against our own moral code and beliefs, for *both* of us, to share our bodies with another person after being married.
    Mama to "The Fantastic Four":
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jo View Post
    Jo, you've been full of the Urban Dictionary knowledge lately!

    Porky Piggin' it.

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    Raidra is offline Sapphire level (2000+ posts)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jo View Post
    Oh dear. I can't decide which smiley should go here..

    To respond to the poll, a long time ago we made some half-hearted attempts to find a woman to join us (I was interested in experimenting). We never met up with anyone, and in the end, we decided it wasn't worth the possible emotional repercussions, since I tend towards jealousy and insecurity.

    Of course, now my husband has forced the issue.

    But on another, somewhat related note.. I would love to experiment with other people (men or women), but I don't think I could handle my husband doing the same. I really don't think he could handle MMF, either.. and I think I'd feel too self-conscious with him participating. Just the other day we were talking about how it would be fun to go to a sex club or something just to watch other people, but not necessarily participate.

    In reality, we'd probably never actually do anything.

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