Newton's Cradle.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...#39;s%20Cradle
My spouse & I only consider & have sexual relations with one another.
My spouse & I are sexually faithful, but we joke about sharing with others.
My spouse & I are sexually faithful, but we talk about it when we get steamy - just fun, dirty talk.
We are sexually faithful SO FAR, but have seriously discussed including a 3rd person.
We have discussed swapping partners with another couple.
I would like to explore but my spouse won't.
My spouse would like to explore, but I won't.
We have shared: M, M, F
We have shared: M, F, F
We have shared 4-way with another couple or swapped.
We have participated in mutiple partner, orgy style, sex.
We share, but oral only.
We shared and one or both of us regretted it.
We shared and we would do it again.
Other: This thread disgusts me / Never thought about it / Brussels Sprouts
Newton's Cradle.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...#39;s%20Cradle
Monogamy is absolutely mandatory for both of us. It goes against our own moral code and beliefs, for *both* of us, to share our bodies with another person after being married.
Mama to "The Fantastic Four":
DS 02
DD 06
DS 09
DD 12
Oh dear. I can't decide which smiley should go here..
To respond to the poll, a long time ago we made some half-hearted attempts to find a woman to join us (I was interested in experimenting). We never met up with anyone, and in the end, we decided it wasn't worth the possible emotional repercussions, since I tend towards jealousy and insecurity.
Of course, now my husband has forced the issue.
But on another, somewhat related note.. I would love to experiment with other people (men or women), but I don't think I could handle my husband doing the same. I really don't think he could handle MMF, either.. and I think I'd feel too self-conscious with him participating. Just the other day we were talking about how it would be fun to go to a sex club or something just to watch other people, but not necessarily participate.
In reality, we'd probably never actually do anything.