View Poll Results: Monogamy: Boring or Beautiful?

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  • My spouse & I only consider & have sexual relations with one another.

    106 75.18%
  • My spouse & I are sexually faithful, but we joke about sharing with others.

    22 15.60%
  • My spouse & I are sexually faithful, but we talk about it when we get steamy - just fun, dirty talk.

    12 8.51%
  • We are sexually faithful SO FAR, but have seriously discussed including a 3rd person.

    3 2.13%
  • We have discussed swapping partners with another couple.

    0 0%
  • I would like to explore but my spouse won't.

    2 1.42%
  • My spouse would like to explore, but I won't.

    2 1.42%
  • We have shared: M, M, F

    1 0.71%
  • We have shared: M, F, F

    0 0%
  • We have shared 4-way with another couple or swapped.

    1 0.71%
  • We have participated in mutiple partner, orgy style, sex.

    0 0%
  • We share, but oral only.

    0 0%
  • We shared and one or both of us regretted it.

    0 0%
  • We shared and we would do it again.

    0 0%
  • Other: This thread disgusts me / Never thought about it / Brussels Sprouts

    6 4.26%
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    Quote Originally Posted by fortato View Post
    I think there needs to be a spin off of this thread- if you wanted to have a three way, what would the third person be? Male, Female, other....
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    Quote Originally Posted by fortato View Post
    I think there needs to be a spin off of this thread- if you wanted to have a three way, what would the third person be? Male, Female, other....
    DH isn't interested in MMF, but I have permission to pursue a MF thing on my own if I want. I'm open to MFF, and OF COURSE DH is, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JoyNChrist View Post
    DH isn't interested in MMF, but I have permission to pursue a MF thing on my own if I want. I'm open to MFF, and OF COURSE DH is, lol.
    It's funny because DH and I have talked about this before (the MFF)...he said he would be a little intimidated because there would be too many.... ahem....holes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lhafer View Post
    It's funny because DH and I have talked about this before (the MFF)...he said he would be a little intimidated because there would be too many.... ahem....holes.
    lol...well that says that he cares about his performance!

    Edited to protect the innocent....and the not so innocent. Also edited as I had suddenly remembered that my stupid screeenname is less-than-anonymous.
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    I also need to point out that while there are only 60 votes and 13 replies (between, what 4 or 5 people?), there have been 356 views. Lotta lookie-loos, huh?

    Yeeeeaaaahhhh, you know this topic fascinates you.
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    This thread is cracking me up, and DH keeps asking why I'm giggling, and I don't want to tell him.
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    I've never really considered a three way or permitting dh to have sex with others. I don't think it would work well because I'd be afraid dh would prefer the other woman. However, I would consider me having some hot sex with George Clooney. I really miss those awesome pregnancy sex dreams.

    I do know a local mom who is a swinger. She doesn't know I know, but one of my other friends figured it out. It kind of creeped me out since she and her hubby seemed like sexually awkward people. She's one of those uber crunchy mamas (I'm a LLL leader, so I'm not totally mainstream) and I was under the impression that she was really religious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lhafer View Post
    It's funny because DH and I have talked about this before (the MFF)...he said he would be a little intimidated because there would be too many.... ahem....holes.
    OMG, this made me laugh out loud which then prompted DH to ask what was so funny. I told him about this thread, thankfully he didn't ask if I responded
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    Quote Originally Posted by amldaley View Post
    I also need to point out that while there are only 60 votes and 13 replies (between, what 4 or 5 people?), there have been 356 views. Lotta lookie-loos, huh?

    Yeeeeaaaahhhh, you know this topic fascinates you.
    Those are all the voyeurs sitting off in a corner having their own little party and watching what's going on!

    Ahahahahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by mariza View Post
    OMG, this made me laugh out loud which then prompted DH to ask what was so funny. I told him about this thread, thankfully he didn't ask if I responded
    So, My husband and I talked about it last night, and I mentioned the intimidation factor and the excess holes and he said that wasn't as much of a concern as having his balls accidentally bump into another guys'....

    I hadn't thought about that.

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