It sounds like you made an immensely smart decision. Good for you!
I have a question and I really hope it isn't badly timed, I know this is such an emotional issue. It is for me, too, because if/when we have another baby I know I'll be well into the "high risk" age category.
But when I think about all this testing and look towards my future pregnancies...I think my perspective is different (maybe?) because I happen to have a lot of knowledge about DS. I know lots of people with DS...I know reams about medical complications, etc. I feel like that makes me both calmer about the possibility but also more freaked because some of the medical stuff is scary.
I just wonder if I would feel lots different if it was just a big unknown. I wonder if other parents have found comfort from learning about the real condition while they go through the awful testing period. When I am there (I know I will be!) I know I will turn to my adult, successful acquaintances who have DS for support and a picture of what my child might accomplish if they do have the condition. Does that make sense?
I'd like to hear what you all think so I can do a good job supporting friends irl who go through this. I'm never quite sure what to share with them...
Again, I don't mean to take this thread away from offering support or at all distract from how scary it would be to feel there's something possibly different about our child.
Last edited by Uno-Mom; 12-30-2011 at 04:36 PM.
Often bumbling mother to baby girl "Sprog"
Born November, 2009