The last 2-3 months have been hellacious with DS#1. It got even worse on the holiday break. Now I know what the poor teachers have been dealing with.
He already has a diagnoses of ADHD and SPD. He was evaluated for Aspergers when he was younger, was given a "wait and see" approach, and we all thought he was aging out of the more worrisome behaviors, and things were looking better. The Aspergers diagnoses was taken of the table/list of concerns about 2 years ago.
But now, I can see it, clear as day in my opinion. And I'm so sad, scared, frustrated and angry. I'm tired of the ongoing problems that never seem to end.
I'm sad that I can't give more to my other children who get less attention because he sucks up so much of it. And I'm worried about needing more of myself to give when the baby arrives.
It's mentally and emotionally tiring of always judging my parenting success based upon how he is acting and doing. That's really short-changing myself, since my other two children are angels, and doing positively wonderful. It's hard to remember that when I feel like I'm failing with one child. And then to remind myself that *I* am not failing--he is just a very difficult child with SN, and I do not have total control over that. Its not my fault.
I made an ASAP appointment with his Ped. for tommorrow, to get a recc for a specialist. I don't think his current doctor is going to cut it for the evaluations & therapy I want done.
Sigh. I needed to vent. And I need P&PT.