My 8 1/2 mo has always been a pretty good sleeper, up until the last month or so. She now refuses to sleep in her crib for naps, and most nights. I'm really not a huge fan of CIO - the one night we tried it she screamed hysterically and shook herself so hard that after an hour I decided that it couldn't possibly be healthy for her to be so riled up for so long! I keep a very consistent sleep routine - jammies, read a story, nurse, then turn off lights and put on some soft music, which seems to settle her down. I've tried both putting her down awake and waiting until she's asleep to put her down, but either way she screams the second she hits the crib mattress. She naps just fine at daycare. Not sure what to do... any suggestions???