Gosh, I'm so sorry you are going through this frustration Lori. I just checked in on this board as we are having a surge in anxiety with DS 1 ourselves. I am going to post it when I have time - I just started reading freeing your child from anxiety as well. If you are looking at coming to the city I will pm you a name that may or may not work for your insurance and needs.
BTW, what is 5-HTP?