Do they happen often in your case? Not happen at all? Mean communication between partners is lacking? It's day no. 2 of me not talking to DH. Long story short, we had a a long talk about possibility of another child (I posted about it a while ago). He's definitely no on the matter, honestly I don't think it'll change.. Ok.. I got sad but told him I need time to get over my feelings, mull everything over .. That was on Saturday. Sunday we kind of stayed out of each others way, Monday the same. Monday night, he tells me he wants to drop off his son at work (his shift starts at midnight) , to see where he works and all that.. So they leave at 9 PM. I put Dd to bed and then fall asleep, but when I wake up at 2 (two!) AM, he's not home.. I got panicked a bit, was sure something happened, checked my phone, nothing.. So I call DH, only for him to answer after 8-9 rings with 'WHAT??', turned out he stayed and chatted for hours and then went to Dunkin Donuts.. I lost it, I got so mad, what..was..he..thinking? At least have the courtesy to text me or something! I said 'How would you feel if I disappeared for the middle of the night like that without a word?' when he got back few minutes later I told him I was too mad to even talk to him.. Ignored him Tuesday night, went to run errands. It just feels like he doesn't give a crap sometimes...aaaaargh ((.
Right now I feel mad, hurt, feel like my feelings don't count.. It's not a good place to be..