DTD with baby in the room????

[MamaSnoo]

Sleeping baby in the room is ok.

I am more comfortable with a younger baby who will not sit up in the crib/look through the slats. We took DS out of our room and into his room around 10 weeks of age. He was in a PNP at that time. I do not really think that he could see anything if he had woken up.

With our older DD, she came back into our bed for co-sleeping around age 9 mos after being in her room from age 3-9 mos. We did not DTD with her in the room at that point.
I do not like the idea of the baby waking up and me being watched.

[niccig]

So here's the thing. It doesn't really bother either of us if the baby is sleeping....or if the Toddler is sleeping. However, we have the most amazing luck where about 1/2 way through said sleeping child WILL wake up and interrupt, thus killing the mood...only you're at the point where...there's no killing the "No don't stop," desire.

We've sorta taken to not DTD with sleeping children in the same room...or nearby anytime there is a good possibility they might wake up. We just end up disappointed. Although I do recall at least one occasion where we let DS1 cry so we could finish the deed.

Mood got killed. Even now with older child, DTD during the day with door locked, we often get interrupted.