Originally Posted by
JElaineB
I would not say anything. If you are not comfortable with what you know will occur when you are there then I would decline the invitation.
I don't think it's fair to ask the host to stop something from happening that they obviously enjoy. It's their xmas too. I wouldn't feel badly asking people to do it discretely without your DCs from knowing, however.
Last edited by larig; 12-23-2012 at 01:31 PM.
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