update: today i came home from work to see the daily report from his teachers...in the memorable moment" section teacher wrote: "[DS] was so excited about the potty!" And in the diaper chart she noted that DS sat on the *TOILET* and peed, TWICE!!! Holy $h!zn!t. The whole time he's been at school (6 weeks?) he has outright refused to come near the toilets at school... just the mere suggestion of sitting on the toilet would often have him in tears. But last week one day the teacher noted he sat on the toilet (didn't make anything though). And today I noticed that other than once in the morning, he didn't pee at all in his diaper.....So this is PROGRESS! Finally, i can see some light at the end of the diapering tunnel.
thanks everyone for your responses. nice to know that i'm not the only one and that i just have to wait until he's ready. The past few days, DS has repeated " Now I wear diapers. When I turn 3 years old, I will be a big boy and use the potty and wear underwear." His birthday is in 2 days...it would be funny/awesome if he made good on his promise, LOL.
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..please commiserate me with me. I am just getting sick and tired of hearing other mamas (of mostly girls, i admit) mention that their kid just got PT'd...and many are a FULL YEAR younger than DS. DS birthday is in a little over a week...I feel like I will be the only person with a 3 year old in diapers. UGH. What's worse is that DS talks/looks older (95% of adults who meet him guess he is 4 or 5) and I notice they are taken aback when they notice he is in diapers. Bleh. Maybe i'm just tired bc I have had TWO in diapers for nearing 2 years now. I just want SOMEONE to be out of diapers!!
DS will wear underwear in the evenings at home for an hour or two.. and yesterday he peed on the potty on his own without even wetting his underwear at all. But it has been this way for 6 months at least, so it's not really progress. At daycare they work on potty training (they have a bathroom with like 3 mini toilets) and have potty time but DS always vehemently refuses... bc i think he is scared of sitting on actual toilets (scared he will fall in, be flushed down, or whatever). DS is a rather anxious kid, fairly OCD about many things...if it were up to him he'd be wearing diapers forever! I'd rather not make a big deal out of it and just wait until he is totally ready. Though its' frustrating seeing everybody else PTing like its no big deal.