DH is annoyed that I'm not giving him kudos for him staying up until 1.30am last night folding 3 loads of laundry and cleaning the kitchen when I went to bed with a migraine.
1. It wasn't that much to do, so he probably didn't get started until 12.00am, so the late hour to bed was due more him not getting started earlier.
2. I routinely go to bed that late because I'm studying or working, then have to throw laundry in dryer or do dishes as DH feel asleep on couch.
3. We always have a tonne of things to do every week
So my response again is "So, what?!" I do this all the time and I don't get anyone thanking me.
So nope, no extra pats on back from me...rather, "you have 2 more loads of laundry to fold tonight as I have a work deadline and I spent all day doing our work hours at DS's school, took him and friends to park for play date after school, did the grocery shopping, cooked dinner, cleaned up dishes, and put those 2 loads of laundry on...so dude, it's all yours!"