Maestramommy, you are a great mom. Everyone here knows that and so should you. Some kids are just so hard to figure out. I know that personally because I just cannot figure out my Greenbean. Every time the OT and I think we have him figured out, he throws us for a loop. It doesn't mean I'm a bad mom. I think the only way someone could call me a bad mom is if I quit trying to help him. Just keep looking fir answers for your dd.
" I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." Mahatma Gandhi
"This is the ultimate weakness of violence: It multiplies evil and violence in the universe. It doesn't solve any problems." Martin Luther King, Jr.