Just do the basics for you and DC to get through the days. Put the rest of that energy into getting to a doctor's office and to echo pp, contact a lawyer, too.
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03-25-2013 #21
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Big hugs to you. Everyone has given good advice about getting help. Please take care of yourself.
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I am so sorry. Please reach out to someone. PM me if you want to/ need to. Just find someone you can let into your word with you. Call your doctor for one medical intervention to help you through these days, then I recommend a counselor. You need support. You need someone to objectively walk through this time with you.
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I'm so sorry. Please try to find some one IRL to talk to....and I agree, if you can get a sitter for some alone time, that would probably be helpful. Many hugs!
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Agree with others about seeing a doctor asap.
Originally Posted by lmh2402
Also, re: the above, I was in a lonely dark place once and also felt I had nobody to turn to. I ended up talking to a therapist and I got back on track. But when I did reach out to friends afterward, it turned out that I really could have turned to them and they would have been there for me, even though I wasn't able to realize that when I was in the thick of things.
My guess is that you may have friends/family who really would be there for you too, even if it seems like they wouldn't be at this moment.DD
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I'm so, so sorry! I hope you can get some help from your doctor very soon!
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Hugs to you!
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I am very sorry.Angie
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03-25-2013 #29
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Hugs to you. You can always come here to talk but I agree with everyone that you should find a trusted doctor/therapist/friend to talk to. An unbiased opinion can be very helpful. Not the same thing, but I saw a therapist in college for a semester when I was miserable. Had horrible roommates, couldn't eat, couldn't be home, etc. she was great in saving me during that time.
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03-25-2013 #30
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call your primary care doc and get a referral to a therapist and maybe some meds to help you short term. I also think finding someone you can talk to (a friend) is super helpful!
Sending you lots of hugs!
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