Carrier ... I like wrap carriers like Moby, Wrapsody Hybrid Stretch, or any number of wovens (I had an EllaRoo, but plan to upgrade to a Stochenweige or Didymos for a 2nd baby, should we have one) for the early stages. Yes, they have a learning curve, but once you figure them out, they're incredibly versatile. Wovens will have a longer lifespan than a stretchy wrap like Moby, but they're not everyone's cup of tea.
Once baby hits about 4 or 5 months, I like the Ergo because their infant insert is ridiculously bulky. (Skip it.)
We've only stopped using the Ergo recently ... in favor of a KinderPack Toddler carrier. (My daughter is 3 yrs old & 33 lbs.)
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Liz
DD (3/2010)
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