I've come to realize in the past few yrs, that it's not unusual to outgrow friends. Ppl change and their relationships change along with that. I had some friends I used to be very close to, but as things changed (kids started school, she returned to work, etc.), our friendship changed too. It is hard to keep friends and takes a lot of work from both sides. When you feel like you are always the one doing the work, sometimes it doesn't feel worth it to keep going. I've had several friendships fizzle out and I feel badly about them at first, but yrs later when I think about it, I realize that it was time for both of us to move on. I hope that you can find new friends whose lives are similar to yours right now. I find that to be a key ingredient. The less you have in common, the harder it is to KIT.