Originally Posted by
twowhat?
If you had already agreed with him that he be the one to get your DD ready and off to daycare on the days that you work, then what you did was absolutely NOT a stunt and he's being the jerk for not holding up his end of the bargain.
No, to be fair to DH, we actually don't have any kind of an agreement about who would get DD up and dressed; I think he just assumed that I would do it, but now that DD is very willful and quite independent, it's becoming more and more time-consuming to get her up, dressed, and out to his car in the mornings. So, yes, I will give him that it was rather stunt-y and I was being immature about doing it, but, dang it, it was REALLY nice to not get stuck in any stupid volume backup.
All he's agreed to was to do drop off because I was doing all drop-off and pick-up ... and it was just too much for me to get to the office at my preferred 7:30am if I also did drop-off because daycare doesn't open until 6:30am (which is when I need to be on the road northbound, not southwest bound.)
But I still disagree that I should have woken him up after his alarm was accidentally switched off ... or that I should have woken him up when I got up (at 5:50am because I don't set an alarm, seeing as how I automatically wake up at around 5:30am if I get to bed early enough) It's only 2 days a week; the other 3, I telecommute, so I can wait until DD wakes on her own if I so choose. (Sometimes I get her up to get her out the door in time to have breakfast at daycare so I don't have to supervise breakfast at home with a sparse pantry.)
He is still an adult and should be responsible enough to get his arse out of bed without me prodding him.
It's hard enough doing it for our DD, I do not need an extra layer of baloney from the other grownup in the house.
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Liz
DD (3/2010)
"Make mistakes! Get messy!" - Miss Frizzle