Just about every sitter we have had has told us how wonderful our kids are. How well-behaved. How easy. How they tell them it's time for bed and they just go get in their PJs and brush their teeth. Don't get me wrong, I think that's awesome, I really do. But how come WE never see said children? We get 1/2 hour tantrums at bedtime! We get kids who complain and/or cry about everything we say or ask. A couple of sitters have told us DS came to them and said he was tired and was ready for bed...in 8 years I have never once had that happen!