I have a good job. I am paid well albeit not as well as DH. I had my calendar booked for 2 months for these last 2 days. A set of meetings in town but where I needed to be at work early and home late. DH has it in his calendar, it is in our family calendar, his admin has it, we talked about it (it was a big meeting for me). This morning he wakes up and at 630 checks his email and says, oh I have to go, I have a meeting at 730. I was like WTF, NO I have a meeting and am getting ready to go. But well he wins. He went. I hung out and waited for the sitter. This afternoon I emailed him asking how it was going, when will you be getting home. He says he will be home at 7. NO I HAVE A MEETING. WTF. $1000 says that if I hadn't asked him he just wouldn't have gotten home. I called my dad and he took care of the boys and I left my meeting early to get home mid dinner. The thing is, it is JUST HOW IT IS. It annoys me to no end but at the end of the day. That is just how it works for him. I get that crap comes up at work it is the failure to communicate (or communicate in an understanding way) that pisses me off to no end.
ok that is all.