Can we talk doulas?
Very long story short, I had a doula for DD2's birth, and not DD1's. I was far, far happier with the way things went with DD2. But my doula from that birth does not work as a doula anymore.
I've been putting off calling around to find someone else for several weeks because I feel overwhelmed by the idea of trying to find someone I'd "click" with as well. However, I'm 34 weeks...it's find someone now or go without. If you've hired a doula recently, can you tell me what kinds of questions you asked (beyond the obvious - availability & fees) to try to gauge whether a doula was a good fit?
I have a list from both DONA and a local birth network, and some of them I can cross off because I have notes about not feeling like they'd be a good fit from last time (as odd as it is, I just found the list from last time cleaning out a bookcase!) but that still leaves a good dozen names...and of course my notes don't include whatever questions I might have asked back then.
Help me stop being paralyzed with phone shyness and come up with a script of sorts? Or at least some questions?
Thanks!
Sarah
Mommy to:
Carolyn, 10/04
Anna, 7/08
Matthew, 8/13