We have 2 girls now 6 1/2 and 8 1/2 and Chase is almost 17 mths old. They have been a huge help and they adore him. They play together alone and with him as well. Life gets crazier but it's been manageable and I was really concerned about the juggle since I work part time and plan to continue that. It is nice that the girls are in school and I get alone time with him the days I don't work and he is an easy happy guy who rolls along for their activities. I am sure it will get harder as he gets a bit older but it hasn't been as bad as I feared and yes I feared it a lot. I was unsure on a third and really terrified while pregnant that I had bit off more than I could chew but I can say now we are done and before there was always a question in my head.