Day 3 now and DD is down to 3 naps at pretty much around the same time +/- 20-30 minutes at 9,11:30,4. I can tell he's still kinda struggling at 1-hour mark after waking up from last nap and his nap is still short (all three of them). The noon one is around 1 - 2 hours but that's only if I keep nursing him when he wakes up at 30-40 minutes of napping. The 3rd nap I just let him nap for 30 mins and bed time is around 6:30 pm.

Philly Mom, if your DD nap is short like 30-45 minutes, do you move the next nap a bit earlier ? I know you don't move her bed time, but how about nap time ? DS only took 30 minute nap in the morning and I often have to move 2nd nap to 11:30 because he could barely make it to 12, if he does, he is super difficult to settle down. So, I'm just wondering if moving the nap time about 2 hours from his wake time would mess things up . Thanks.