She sounds lovely. I loved the following 2 books for "training" - they aren't training books but they are more a combo science/training/behavior/how to understand your dog books that are pretty fun to read (ignore the author's flaunting of her PhD). They're filled with wonderful info about communicating effectively with your dog and have enough info to glean basic training methods from. I also think they're GREAT reads for dog bite prevention even though they aren't advertised as such. Just knowing how to read/respond/interact with a dog is huge - and these are things you should teach your children. I was doubtful I'd get much out of these books, as I was already pretty dog saavy....but I learned SO MUCH useful info as well as learned about some of my mis-information. I was once able to get 3 shy (and big! bull terriers and a boxer) dogs to come to me on a busy street and get them in the car and back to their owner (all without treats and only one had a collar for me to hold onto so the others were herded into the car without anything to grab onto at all) who was surprised I was able to even touch them, just by using the knowledge I acquired from these books.
Congratulations and have fun watching her personality emerge!
http://www.amazon.com/Other-End-Leas...icia+mcconnell
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Dog-Under...icia+mcconnell