I was just joking with a colleague, who also has 2 children with special needs, that many days it's like playing whac-a-mole. You get one thing settled and the next thing pops up!
DS2, so far needs weekly psych / therapy; weekly OT now; weekly (or more?? no idea) help with his language based issues AND still I feel like we are just scratching the surface in terms of getting him to a good place and on a good track. We are MAYBE treading water? Or worse.
I have learned over the years that neither we (DH and I) nor the kids can do everything all at once. It takes too much mental energy. Whenever I have worked on too many things at once, we just end up burned out and frustrated. Every year we evaluate which things we are going to work on for each kid and then go from there. I know that it feels like there is this huge pressure to try and fix everything all at once. I have to keep reminding myself that this is a marathon, not a sprint.
Beth, mom to older DD (8/01) and younger DD (10/06) and always missing Leah (4/22 - 5/1/05)