Honestly, I wouldn't have done any of that LOL! Except take him to museums. And even then, only when it was convenient. I would encourage him to do things on his own, read books, watch videos, and provide materials. But I am so not the parent who sits and plays for hours with their kids. I just can't do it. I'll do some activities with them, but I don't have the mental energy for hours on end.
And I have to ask, when does he have the time for all of this???? LOL!!! If it's after school, frankly I would put him in after school activities. He seems to have boundless energy and enthusiasm and that will help him channel this. I would find things he enjoys of course, but physical stuff that wears him out is a good choice. There are also chess clubs, Lego leagues, Odyssey of the Mind, music lessons, etc. Some of these things are harder to find for K kids, but I have to believe that where you are, there are choices. If he wants to do videos and editing, there are definitely classes and camps for that, although again maybe harder to find at his age.
I would also think about how you will maintain this level when the other kids are older. Are they going to want their turn?
And personally, I wouldn't let him use my $$ food as play items. I would think about a supplies allowance and holding him to that.
ETA: I hope this doesn't come across as critical! But I think it's easy with the first kid to slip into habits/dynamics that are not sustainable with more kids or long term. I know we did.
Last edited by egoldber; 04-29-2014 at 09:40 AM.
Beth, mom to older DD (8/01) and younger DD (10/06) and always missing Leah (4/22 - 5/1/05)