First off wanted to thank everyone for helpful advice. This was our first family trip to Disneyland and were pretty clueless about everything, hence my various threads with various questions. We went to the parks May 4-7, flew in to John Wayne airport and stayed at HoJos, got 4-day park hoppers and it worked out perfectly. We even met my parents there and did the parks with them for a few days, which was really nice.
Day1 (Sunday) - Our flight was super early (Central Time!) so we got to HoJo's around 930 am. Said room wouldn't be ready till 4pm but they said we could check our luggage in and use the pool and the Castaway Cove... so we did that. DS literally saw the top of Castaway Cove from the taxi and was BEGGING to play in it (lol!). Castaway Cove didn't open till 10am, but the pool was open at 9 so we just did the pool first. While they liked both I must say the Castaway Cove is pretty awesome and was perfect for my kids (age 3 & 4). After playing there and relaxing a bit on the lounge chairs we met my parents and went to lunch at Mimi's with them which was just across the street. Then we got the rental stroller from hotel and headed to DL. We didn't really get into DL till about 2pm (and we ended up leaving at 530, so super short day) but we got to do sooo many things. We met up with friends who are local and who had APs and really knew the ropes and gave us advice on what to ride and helped us get FPs. I took DS on Big Thunder Mountain (his first roller coaster!) and Star Tours and DH took DD on Astro Orbiter. We all went on Buzz Lightyear and did a round trip on Disneyland train. We saw Minnie on Main Street and I got a pic of DD hugging Minnie and her hugging her back..it was adorable!!!
Day 2 (Monday) - mostly spent this day at California Adventure. We were there from rope drop (10am) to after closing (9:30pm) nonstop, and the kids did great. The weather was really nice, which helped a ton. Right at rope drop DH ran to get Fastpasses for Radiator Springs Racers, then World of Color. Was able to get RSR with return time around 1pm which was great since we had 11:20 reservation at Ariel's Grotto. We went on Golden Zephyr (almost no wait) and then I took DS to Goofy Sky School while DH took Dd to the Mickey Fun Wheel. We then did the lunch at Ariel's which was AMAZING...the food was awesome and DD was beyond excited. Inside we got pics with Ariel (who was so sweet btw!) and then were seated outside with an amazing view of Paradise Pier. We saw Snow White, Tiana, Cinderella, and Aurora. DD was so giddy in meeting them After the lunch dh took DS to Ride RSR while I stayed with DD who fell asleep in the stroller. I was able to just sit at a bench and chill while she slept. After RSR we got to take pics with Mater which Ds was super excited about. Then he fell asleep and we just let the kids sleep while we sat on a bench in the shade and chatted...the weather was really nice to allow this! They each napped about 2 hrs in the stroller which was awesome. I seriously cannot recommend a stroller enough.
In the afternoon we went on the king triton carousel (twice, at DD's insistence ) and then did a couple of Bugs life rides (the Heimleich train, ladybug boogie), and then went to ride the monorail from Tomorrowland . DS had been asking like 1000 times to ride the monorail (he's obsessed with trains)..i thought it just whatever but He thought it was SO cool. Then for dinner we went that zocala Mexican restaurant in Fronteirland. We sat outside and luckily got a table right next to Big Thunder Mountain Railroad which my DS was utterly enthralled with..you could see every train that zoomed by (the trains would probably come like 12 feet away from our table) and DS was BESIDE HIMSELF. Then after that we headed back to DCA to get spots for World of Color. Since my mom was with an ECV (and she has a placard) they said we could sit in the handicapped section, which had a good view. Dh and I thought it was downright amazing, but I think it was loud for the kids and plus some scenes (like the pirates, etc) they found scary.
Day 3 (Tuesday) - ok so this day started out a bit disappointing since we had Magic Morning but didn't get to the parks until 9:45 or so, because the service at IHOP was slloow. PSA to everyone: the IHOP across the street for DLR is EXPENSIVE!!! We went there thinking it was cheap like the IHOPs back home, but NO...a basic plate was like 12.99 (vs. like 7.99 back home). DOH! Oh well, live and learn. Despite getting to Fantasyland 15 mins before rope drop it was already insanely crowded. It felt way more crowded than day before but maybe that is just Fantasyland. Peter pan ride wait was already 50 min by 10am. Dumbos (which DD really want to go on) already was over 30 min..so we skipped those..we discovered the kiddos cannot really wait more than 15-20 minutes for rides that are just a couple minutes long. We did carousel (5 min wait) and Casey Jr train (like 15 min wait) which DS (huge train lover) really liked. After that went to ToonTown and They played for a good while in Goofy's playhouse which was perfect and just what my kids needed.. it is really hard for them to stand in line all day, so this was great for just letting them run around. Then later we headed out to Downtown Disney to meet a friend for lunch. DD fell asleep in the stroller but DS stayed awake. We ate at the Mexican place (Tortilla Joe?s) sorta near the House of Blues..the fish tacos were amazing! After that we did a little bit of shopping at World of Disney. Found the non-talking Olaf plush doll, big Frozen golden book and two Disney sticker books for the kids. All other Frozen stuff (Anna/Elsa plush dolls, etc were SOLD OUT). In the afternoon we went to CA adventure and got to take pics with Lightning McQueen..both kids loved that. Dh took DDon the Luigi tire ride, which she really liked. As we were waiting Behind the luigi tire ride, DS and I got to see lightning McQueen and Mater drive by, which was cool.
After that we headed to Disneyland..walked all the way to Wînnie the Pooh ride only to find out it was just shut down. So we ended up doing the Tarzan treehouse and then the Enchanted Tiki Room, which the kids got a kick out of (they love birds!) Then it was close to 6pm so we sat down on place on Main Street to watch Mickey's Soundsational parade. We did have to wait an hour but the kids did great (sticker books from that Disney store kept them busy). We ended up getting corn dogs for dinner and just eating them there while we waited for the parade. BTWthe corn dogs there were sooo yummy!
Anyway I should say, the parade was by far, the highlight of the whole day, quite possibly the whole Disney visit. I dont think I had ever seen my kids more excited than when they first saw Mickey coming down the street. They were literally shrieking with excitement. And then this all would repeat after seeing each set of characters (Ariel, Lion King, etc). It was really something else. I am so, so glad we waited to get a good place and watch it...the kids just loved it. After the parade, before 8pm we just headed home as my DS had not napped at all and I could tell he was getting super tired. If not for that we could have stayed another hour.
Day 4 (Wednesday) - this time we learned from our mistake yesterday and got to Fantasyland early enough to be there for rope drop... we really wanted to get DD on the Dumbos as she had been asking to ride it, but we knew she couldn't handle an hour wait (it felt so crowded!). DH got in with DD and was only a 10 minute wait, which was good. Then we did carousels again (both kids love them!) and luckily they did not have any wait. We did the Sleeping Beauty castle walk-through with them which they liked but i think DS thought it was a bit scary. We then went to the Royal Theater and got in line for the 11:15 showing of Tangled. We only had to wait like 15 minutes before they let everyone in. What's cool about this is that they let kids sit in the front, near the stage. It was really cute...the play with real actors held the kids attention and they were excited to see Rapunzel close up. And they even cracked jokes that adults would find funny..DH & I were cracking up during it! Afterwards, we got in line for the Belle Meet & Greet, and we got pics taken with Belle. After all that DD napped in the stroller, and we then went to Toon Town and DS went with DH to a boat play area structure..then i think DS sacked out. We ate a pizza lunch there. We then went to do Winnie the Pooh ride and on the way we saw Tigger and got to take pics with him! Winnie the Pooh had no wait at all, which was nice. We then did Jungle Cruise (15 min wait) which both kids liked, and then i think we did Tarzan's Treehouse again (i think my DS had done it like 4 times, i don't know where he gets the energy!!). Then, we came back to do the 4:30 showing of Beauty & the Beast, and again sat on the floor near the stage w/ the kids. It was so cute!! Again, the actors were really entertaining and HILARIOUS. DS totally LOVED it (i think Beauty & Beast is one of his favorites).After that we did a round trip on Disneyland train, one more time..and this time we got to ride in the caboose ..DS was thrilled!! I liked it too bc it was getting kind of cold & windy Then we went over to Main Street area, ate dinner. We then happened to see Mickey on Main Street so got a family pic taken with him. Then DD wanted to do Astro Orbiter again, so DH took her to do that while I took DS back up to the Main Street train station to see the train stuff..he was in paradise By then it was getting dark (8pm), and we told the kids we had to say bye to Disneyland. They were so sad we had to leave... and to be honest, we were too!! It really did feel like a magical trip It was our first ever vacation and it actually felt like a vacation!!
Anyway, kudos to anyone who has read this far (LOL)!! Would be happy to answer any questions!!
Also, i just wanted to add - our stroller was ESSENTIAL for us...i cannot recommend a stroller enough!! Except for Sunday (the day we arrived), we were at parks from rope drop to closing (or near closing), and never came back to the hotel for breaks. The park hours were shorter then (like DCA was 10am-8pm) so we wanted to maximize our time in the parks, plus kids did too (we kept thinking we'd go back to hotel for a break if kids started melting down, but miraculously they never did). I think the stroller was key for us... with that, the kids were able to rest and nap whenever they wanted. Normally the kids don't use strollers at all (and when they do, they never nap in them) but i guess all the excitement and stimulation from Disneyland sacked them out! A couple days DS didn't nap at all, but at least he was able to sit and rest. The Baby Jogger City Mini Double was perfect as you can recline it pretty far. We are planning to go again next year and we are definitely getting a double stroller again!
Oh and we ended up not doing Von's grocery delivery, and we just bought milk at the gift shop inside the HoJo's (thank you egoldberg for checking that out!). It ended up working out bc as I said, we spent all day in the parks and basically were never in our hotel room anyway (jsut for showering and sleeping), so we didn't really eat much in our hotel room at all. We did bring a ton of non-perishable stuff from home (applesauce pouches, protein bars, granola bars) and that was good for kids snacks throughout the day. Our room had a mini fridge and microwave, so we just would keep milk in the fridge and heat it up in the mornings for them. Oh and the McDonald's was right on our way to the parks so we had breakfast there a couple times...the kids loved their yogurt and oatmeal!